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		<title>By: Lynnette</title>
		<link>http://zelophehadsdaughters.com/2010/02/08/feminism-is-not-a-trial/#comment-57913</link>
		<dc:creator>Lynnette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 08:21:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m not sure how much more there is to say in this discussion, so I&#039;m going to close comments. Though first I&#039;m going to exercise my privilege as the original poster to get in the last word. (Actually, a few last words.)

Jacob J, (#196), I&#039;ll concede the point. And though I do think z has made some valid points, I think it&#039;s preferable to give people the benefit of the doubt and avoid making too many assumptions. (Edited to add, after another look at the discussion--I don&#039;t think that&#039;s equivalent to avoiding the issue of how gender inevitably shapes our perspectives on this stuff. But I am nonetheless wary of generalizations.)

Geoff J and Blake, I really take issue with the way you&#039;ve framed this, and I think you&#039;ve pretty much missed the boat as far as the point of this discussion. But when I&#039;m a little less burned out on the subject I plan to come back to some of the issues that got raised here, so I&#039;m sure we&#039;ll have a chance to re-visit this.

Jessawhy, I love the t-shirt! And yes, the Bouncer is male. But if you haven&#039;t, you really should read more about him (see &lt;a href=&quot;http://zelophehadsdaughters.com/2006/08/13/please-welcome-the-bouncer/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.)

In the hopes of maybe salvaging a little bit of our reputation for friendliness, I did want to at least acknowledge some of the comments that might have gotten lost in the mayhem-- wreddyornot (I can very much relate to the challenges you describe, and I think many here can as well), miles (I think those questions are exactly the ones to be asking, though I&#039;m struggling with those issues, too), Reese (though I find the phrase &quot;roll their big fat throbbing brains&quot; just a little disturbing ;) ), Martine (exactly!), newt (lol). 

Thanks for playing. See you all next time.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m not sure how much more there is to say in this discussion, so I&#8217;m going to close comments. Though first I&#8217;m going to exercise my privilege as the original poster to get in the last word. (Actually, a few last words.)</p>
<p>Jacob J, (#196), I&#8217;ll concede the point. And though I do think z has made some valid points, I think it&#8217;s preferable to give people the benefit of the doubt and avoid making too many assumptions. (Edited to add, after another look at the discussion&#8211;I don&#8217;t think that&#8217;s equivalent to avoiding the issue of how gender inevitably shapes our perspectives on this stuff. But I am nonetheless wary of generalizations.)</p>
<p>Geoff J and Blake, I really take issue with the way you&#8217;ve framed this, and I think you&#8217;ve pretty much missed the boat as far as the point of this discussion. But when I&#8217;m a little less burned out on the subject I plan to come back to some of the issues that got raised here, so I&#8217;m sure we&#8217;ll have a chance to re-visit this.</p>
<p>Jessawhy, I love the t-shirt! And yes, the Bouncer is male. But if you haven&#8217;t, you really should read more about him (see <a href="http://zelophehadsdaughters.com/2006/08/13/please-welcome-the-bouncer/" rel="nofollow">here</a>.)</p>
<p>In the hopes of maybe salvaging a little bit of our reputation for friendliness, I did want to at least acknowledge some of the comments that might have gotten lost in the mayhem&#8211; wreddyornot (I can very much relate to the challenges you describe, and I think many here can as well), miles (I think those questions are exactly the ones to be asking, though I&#8217;m struggling with those issues, too), Reese (though I find the phrase &#8220;roll their big fat throbbing brains&#8221; just a little disturbing <img src='http://zelophehadsdaughters.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  ), Martine (exactly!), newt (lol). </p>
<p>Thanks for playing. See you all next time.</p>
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		<title>By: Jessawhy</title>
		<link>http://zelophehadsdaughters.com/2010/02/08/feminism-is-not-a-trial/#comment-57907</link>
		<dc:creator>Jessawhy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 03:57:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I didn&#039;t know the Bouncer was male. (wrinkles forehead perplexedly)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I didn&#8217;t know the Bouncer was male. (wrinkles forehead perplexedly)</p>
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		<title>By: Lynnette</title>
		<link>http://zelophehadsdaughters.com/2010/02/08/feminism-is-not-a-trial/#comment-57906</link>
		<dc:creator>Lynnette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 03:13:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Lurker,

Mea culpa. The absence of the Bouncer in a thread that clearly could have used more of him is pretty much my fault. Seraphine diligently tried to tone things down a bit, but I was possibly getting too entertained by the fireworks to do much of moderating the discussion. I&#039;m glad to hear, though, that this seems more like an aberration than our usual style.

I know that for a while T&amp;S was shutting down conversations at comment 100. Though I probably wouldn&#039;t adopt that, I can kind of see the point--when threads go on and on, it often means they&#039;ve disintegrated.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lurker,</p>
<p>Mea culpa. The absence of the Bouncer in a thread that clearly could have used more of him is pretty much my fault. Seraphine diligently tried to tone things down a bit, but I was possibly getting too entertained by the fireworks to do much of moderating the discussion. I&#8217;m glad to hear, though, that this seems more like an aberration than our usual style.</p>
<p>I know that for a while T&#038;S was shutting down conversations at comment 100. Though I probably wouldn&#8217;t adopt that, I can kind of see the point&#8211;when threads go on and on, it often means they&#8217;ve disintegrated.</p>
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		<title>By: Lynnette</title>
		<link>http://zelophehadsdaughters.com/2010/02/08/feminism-is-not-a-trial/#comment-57903</link>
		<dc:creator>Lynnette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 03:02:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh my heck!!! (Yes, I grew up in Utah.) I step away from this thread and come back to see that it&#039;s been completely derailed into an argument that I&#039;m losing track of, though it possibly seems to involve the question of whether ZD or NCT is meaner. 

I started to attempt to write something about the question of styles of theological discussion, because I&#039;m not comfortable with how this is getting framed (in terms of the virtue of &quot;robust challenge&quot;  and what that means and how it&#039;s being gendered) but I&#039;m thinking I&#039;m probably better off trying to put that into a new post someday, rather than try to figure it out at comment 211. 

Anyway, it sounds like everyone&#039;s bailed out anyway, but yeah, definitely time to drop this threadjack.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh my heck!!! (Yes, I grew up in Utah.) I step away from this thread and come back to see that it&#8217;s been completely derailed into an argument that I&#8217;m losing track of, though it possibly seems to involve the question of whether ZD or NCT is meaner. </p>
<p>I started to attempt to write something about the question of styles of theological discussion, because I&#8217;m not comfortable with how this is getting framed (in terms of the virtue of &#8220;robust challenge&#8221;  and what that means and how it&#8217;s being gendered) but I&#8217;m thinking I&#8217;m probably better off trying to put that into a new post someday, rather than try to figure it out at comment 211. </p>
<p>Anyway, it sounds like everyone&#8217;s bailed out anyway, but yeah, definitely time to drop this threadjack.</p>
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		<title>By: Lurker</title>
		<link>http://zelophehadsdaughters.com/2010/02/08/feminism-is-not-a-trial/#comment-57901</link>
		<dc:creator>Lurker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 02:25:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi. I&#039;m a lurker. I wanted to put up a quick wondering. 

Usually, when I read on this blog, I find comments that address the issue of the post with conciseness and respect for both the topic and the other commenters. I&#039;m wondering what made this post sort of fall apart into mini-scuffles instead of intelligently addressing the issue. Was it the drive to get over two hundred comments? Actually, one of the reasons I lurk on this blog is because the discussions are contained and meaningful instead of flaring into all kinds of tangents, so I can actually digest the entire discussion. 

As I sifted through the comments here, I kept expecting the Bouncer to show up and say, &quot;Back to the issue, oh ye that wander.&quot; But the Bouncer never showed up. 

Anyway, this makes me wonder why this post in particular ran away so much. I&#039;ve seen smaller instances before, but not like this.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi. I&#8217;m a lurker. I wanted to put up a quick wondering. </p>
<p>Usually, when I read on this blog, I find comments that address the issue of the post with conciseness and respect for both the topic and the other commenters. I&#8217;m wondering what made this post sort of fall apart into mini-scuffles instead of intelligently addressing the issue. Was it the drive to get over two hundred comments? Actually, one of the reasons I lurk on this blog is because the discussions are contained and meaningful instead of flaring into all kinds of tangents, so I can actually digest the entire discussion. </p>
<p>As I sifted through the comments here, I kept expecting the Bouncer to show up and say, &#8220;Back to the issue, oh ye that wander.&#8221; But the Bouncer never showed up. </p>
<p>Anyway, this makes me wonder why this post in particular ran away so much. I&#8217;ve seen smaller instances before, but not like this.</p>
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		<title>By: Jacob J</title>
		<link>http://zelophehadsdaughters.com/2010/02/08/feminism-is-not-a-trial/#comment-57895</link>
		<dc:creator>Jacob J</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 00:48:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lynnette (#174),

Yes, to the extent that someone is labeling feminism a personal trial so as to undermine feminist critiques as being personal points of view lacking force in the public arena, that is total garbage.  

I still maintain that if they simply mean to acknowledge that as a feminist you are swimming against the stream which is a hard (and wearisome) thing to do then it should not be viewed negatively.  

I&#039;m sure some of both happen in practice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lynnette (#174),</p>
<p>Yes, to the extent that someone is labeling feminism a personal trial so as to undermine feminist critiques as being personal points of view lacking force in the public arena, that is total garbage.  </p>
<p>I still maintain that if they simply mean to acknowledge that as a feminist you are swimming against the stream which is a hard (and wearisome) thing to do then it should not be viewed negatively.  </p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure some of both happen in practice.</p>
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		<title>By: wreddyornot</title>
		<link>http://zelophehadsdaughters.com/2010/02/08/feminism-is-not-a-trial/#comment-57893</link>
		<dc:creator>wreddyornot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 00:01:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for this discussion and making it public. My trial is in wanting to question and plod in my home ward and environs, hoping to thereby seek for answers to and/or changes in the inequities on up the ranks , but then I find myself being taken to task by both men and women for doing so. It&#039;s easy to deal with the men complaining, but not the women. I&#039;ve thought for awhile it is just too difficult for me to do so in the total absence of any other women around my neighborhood with similar interests and inclinations to do so. Yet I find myself attracted to and empathetic with the underlying discussion in the OP here and the ensuing discussion, especially hearing from women who feel as I perceive they deserve to feel and long for change.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for this discussion and making it public. My trial is in wanting to question and plod in my home ward and environs, hoping to thereby seek for answers to and/or changes in the inequities on up the ranks , but then I find myself being taken to task by both men and women for doing so. It&#8217;s easy to deal with the men complaining, but not the women. I&#8217;ve thought for awhile it is just too difficult for me to do so in the total absence of any other women around my neighborhood with similar interests and inclinations to do so. Yet I find myself attracted to and empathetic with the underlying discussion in the OP here and the ensuing discussion, especially hearing from women who feel as I perceive they deserve to feel and long for change.</p>
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		<title>By: z</title>
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		<dc:creator>z</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 23:52:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I genuinely did not mean to offend you, Blake.  But I don&#039;t see what&#039;s so burdensome about having to defend gendered policies on the merits, nor what&#039;s so offensive about acknowledging that growing up in a sexist culture can skew people&#039;s decisionmaking.  The benefit of the doubt isn&#039;t an entitlement, and withholding it isn&#039;t a reflection on any particular individual.  Nor does it imply that anyone is not in good faith.  It&#039;s simply an effort to get us to the right answer on the merits, rather than wishing the controversy away.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I genuinely did not mean to offend you, Blake.  But I don&#8217;t see what&#8217;s so burdensome about having to defend gendered policies on the merits, nor what&#8217;s so offensive about acknowledging that growing up in a sexist culture can skew people&#8217;s decisionmaking.  The benefit of the doubt isn&#8217;t an entitlement, and withholding it isn&#8217;t a reflection on any particular individual.  Nor does it imply that anyone is not in good faith.  It&#8217;s simply an effort to get us to the right answer on the merits, rather than wishing the controversy away.</p>
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		<title>By: Blake</title>
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		<dc:creator>Blake</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 23:43:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>z - your post 204 is one of the most patronizing and sexist things I&#039;ve read in a long time. I&#039;m bowing out too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>z &#8211; your post 204 is one of the most patronizing and sexist things I&#8217;ve read in a long time. I&#8217;m bowing out too.</p>
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		<title>By: Geoff J</title>
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		<dc:creator>Geoff J</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 23:27:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I kid, I kid!

Alright my work is done here. We exceeded 200 comment.  I&#039;ll bow out.  This kind of rough housing flies better over at our man-place.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I kid, I kid!</p>
<p>Alright my work is done here. We exceeded 200 comment.  I&#8217;ll bow out.  This kind of rough housing flies better over at our man-place.</p>
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